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My Story With A Narcissistic Stalker

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Posted on 09/04/2025

Sentiment: Negative
Post # 12841 posted in:
Rant & Rave - Relationships - Friends
Location:
Hendersonville
Asheville, North Carolina, United States

Hello, unlike many on here and other sites, I'm not posting the name of the person that is stalking me, and is also a narcissist. I'm not because I know from what a friend went through when he posted all kinds of information about the person that took advantage of him. He ended up being charged with cyberstalking and harassment, and it wasn't really that bad. Everything he said was true. But he still spend thousands of dollars defending against the charges. Unfortunately, a dirty cop got involved and he wouldn't stop until he'd been charged with other stuff. He almost became a felon and ended up with a criminal record. But not for the alleged stalking and harassment.

I have included all of the information about the person that is stalking me on my blog. But I do not put her name, or any kind of a description in there. Other than narcissist. She is a very sick person who has been targeting me for weeks, driving by with her married boyfriend in the car or another BF I call Rodent. We were just friends. Before I told her I wanted nothing to do with her she threw it in my face that she was screwing my friend (the married BF). Prior to this she had started targeting my ex wife (we work together), trying to tell me what to do, yelling at me, she threatened to carry a firearm into the hospital where her elderly father was admitted and eliminate him. This woman was part of a much larger friend group. She was defaming my ex wife, telling everyone she was psychotic and she was in fear for her life, trying to turn everyone against my ex wife (my ex lives hundred's of miles away) At some point she (ex wife) got wind and this caused problems for us. My ex wife is not one to be trifled with and ultimately the backlash would fall on to me. My ex told me to get control of the woman and the situation. I couldn't and it just went downhill from there. The crazy woman wouldn't stop stalking me and it got worse and worse until feared for my safety. Cops are useless and told me restraining order's aren't worth the paper they're written on, and I don't know where her boyfriends live. I don't know if narcissism is exactly what's wrong with her, but she is a very sick individual.

The stalking got so bad, I finally had to flee my home and am now on a permanent camping trip with the bears and rattlesnakes. The police wouldn't help me. If you're a man, they don't do anything. This may affect women too, but I know I received no help. Basically, this is what the cops told me to do. I can't just break my lease, and I can't afford two rent payments a month, so for now this dispersed camping trip has to do. I am at peace and feel good for the first time in many months. I hate that I drive so far to get to the amenities, but that's the price I'm paying. And best of all, that crazy b**ch has no idea where I'm at. I haven't told anyone where I am. And have no intention of it. I created the blog because I refuse to be that b**ch's victim, and I refuse to remain silent while toxic people like her run rampant. I am now in therapy. But I don't want to go to jail for writing about my experiences either and I know from personal experience of a friend, that you can. We think we have free speech, but we don't.

The flying monkeys part of it is what a narcissist's minions are called. They're very sick individuals, all of them.

I share my experience on my blog. About the stalking, about the narcissism. I do not share that I'm holed up in the woods because I'm afraid she will try to find me. The b**ch's friends have already contacted my ex wife, other friends, and even social media followers to spread her victim story and try to find out where I'm at. I just wanted to share my story. I can't make others aware. Unfortunately, she's such a good actress that no one would listen to me anyway. So there's no need.

My blog is jefferyhiltonjones at wordpress. I share the whole sordid story there. And I write about narcissism, stalking and narcissistic abuse.


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